Advice on How to Have Better Anal Sex

Many couples today are enjoying and including anal sex in their sexual lives. However, anal sex is different from vaginal sex as it requires bigger preparation that will ensure maximum sexual pleasure, satisfaction, and safety for both partners. If you want to have better anal sex, consider some of the following advice.

First of all, both you and your partner should feel comfortable about performing anal sex. Same like with any other sexual activity, neither of you should feel like they are forced to do something they do not want to do. If your partner has some concerns or worries before having anal sex, you should discuss openly about all aspects of the matter until you both feel comfortable doing it.

Second, you should always wear a condom while having anal sex. Even if you are in a committed, long relationship with your partner and even if you do not use condoms for vaginal sex, you should definitely use one during anal sex. This comes from a simple reason - the anal canal usually contains bacteria that can cause some health problems or infections if the penis is not protected with a condom. In addition to that, the female partner may find the anal experience much more pleasurable if her partner uses a condom.

The third thing to have in mind is that you need to properly lubricate before having anal sex. Use plenty of lubrication so the anal sex will provide a better feeling. Foreplay is also important, so you should start slowly around the rectal area. Help your partner relax and lubricate the anus properly. You can also use your hand to massage your partner`s erogenous zones. Kissing, hugging, touching should always be employed just in the same way like when you have vaginal sex. As soon as you penetrate your partner, keep going slow and take your time. Do not rush things and just enjoy. Partners should also communicate during the anal sex and make sure that the woman feels comfortable while having anal sex. You may also adjust your moves and speed in a way in which your partner would feel the best. Couples can experiment different positions for anal sex, but usually, the doggy style position is most commonly used for pleasant anal sex experience.

After you have completed your anal activity, you should not pull out your penis quickly out of your partner`s anus. Do it slowly, otherwise, it can be painful for your penis. Also, do not forget to do a thorough cleaning of your penis after you are done with the anal sex. Same like after vaginal sex, the man should always wash the penis with mild soap and water. If you plan to continue with vaginal intercourse right away after having anal sex, make sure you discard the condom used for anal sex and use a brand new for the vaginal sex. This is very important for preventing the bacteria from spreading from your lover's anus to her vagina.